Monday, May 4, 2015

My thoughts on blogging

Keeping a blog for a few months has been very interesting; it has been a great contribution to my development as a writer. You see? A blog is very different from a journal, or an essay. For me, a blog feels like a conversation. I intend them to be as if I was telling someone about something. It has to be personalized, not formal. I’ve enjoyed writing these entries because they are not directed instead they are my opinion. I can truly say that this blog represents me and is completely honest!

Up to date I have about 15 entries, including this one. Doesn’t seem like much at first, but considering I’ve had this blog for only a few months (5 months to be more specific) those are quite a lot entries! I always kept them between 300 to 500 words in order to make them short and precise. If there is one post that I really enjoyed it would be my personal “Who’s the girl?” entry. In this entry I had the chance of expressing who I am. It was kind of my “first impression” kind of entry. It was a chance for readers to get to know the blogger and understand my background, which was going to be the base of my future reflections. For me, that blog post meant that I was exposing myself to the world. I was revealing the things that made me who I am and if you think about it that is pretty darn scary. As a person that is afraid of judgment and feels like she should please everyone, exposing something that I can’t change was scary for me. Being yourself is something you can’t really please people with. Nonetheless, after the post I felt great! I said to myself: “OK. Now that that’s over I can actually be myself and make this blog mine!” It was a nice feeling.

As I mentioned before, a blog seems like a conversation to me. If I compare it to my journal I can definitely see the differences. In a journal, I write for myself. I don’t have to explain myself. Contrary, in a blog I have to make sure the reader understands what I’m trying to say. A journal is not meant for someone to read, a blog is. However, I did notice that for both writing methods I wrote casually. If something sets apart a blog from an essay or a novel is the style of writing and the way it’s meant to be read. A blog is supposed to be read more easily and to be more dynamic, with the format of the text, pictures and fun links.

Which reminds me, now that summer is coming you’re probably thinking about vacation. What’s that? No budget this year? Don’t be that same person next year and try out this 52-week challenge for saving money! I already started mine!

Anyways, another fun part of this blog was the comments! I have to admit, having to comment on each post of each of the members of my group was dreary, not because of the content but because it was a lot of work! Nonetheless, if it was constructive advice I was happy to do it. Commenting on each other’s posts gave us support. All of my teammates comments were useful and helped me learn and write better. Their comments showed their respect towards my opinions. It was interesting to see how many of them related to what I said and how my post also helped them personally. The tips on commenting based on Peter Elbow were very beneficial, as they helped me create comments that weren’t general but specific and personal. I believe my colleagues also based their comments using Elbow’s guideline.


After all, it was a hell of an experience. For the longest time I have reminisced on the idea of creating a blog and having this one certainly gave me an idea of the way a blog works. Therefore now I am even surer about the next one! If you were or are thinking about creating one I encourage it to do so. Don’t be afraid! Your entries don’t have to be anything fancy or wowish. Just write about what you know and after a while you’ll get the hang of it. Trust me! If you don’t, you’ll always be left with the thought of what if?  Just try it!


My Experience Working in a Group


Being part of a group was truly a challenging task. Working as a team was crucial to get things done correctly and in time. Even though we had our differences, we still managed to come together as a group and learn form each other. I can definitely say that The Reflexive Ponderers was more than a group assignment. We got along so well and in the end we became good friends that provided support to one another. This project has taught me communication skills and the importance of teamwork. We learned that everyone had to cooperate in order for the group to do well as a whole. Together we could discuss class topics and hear other’s opinion on the subject. This method also taught us that everyone’s opinion is different and that is OK! In general, the group projects were an excellent and it was truly one of the best assignments in the class.

Saturday, May 2, 2015

Serving in Silence

Margarethe Cammermeyer was an army nurse who was discharged from her service for being lesbian. She decided to sue the army and earn her rights, which were not supposed to be affected because of her sexual orientation. At first I was surprised by the army’s reaction. They asked her to make a declaration were she stated that she was not a lesbian. In other words they wanted her to lie about her personality; deny who she was. Her sons, on the other hand supported her completely. They were not ashamed of her and they didn’t ask under any circumstances for her to deny who she was. If anything, her statement made them closer to their mom. 

The movie Serving in Silence was an excellent representation of her story. I thought her narrative was inspiring; in terms of being honest and fighting for what you believe in. I most definitely believe she shouldn’t have kept it a secret. I think everyone has the right of expressing their beliefs and being open about who they are. If she ‘d kept it quiet it would’ve meant that she was letting others decide for her. Denying her reality meant letting society control her. She considered her sexual orientation her identity. She didn’t think of it as a temporary interest, but essentially a part of her. That was one of the main reasons why she didn’t deny it and wasn’t willing to take back her statement. I truly admire her for standing up for herself and for deciding on her own path.